You can call it good luck, or cause and effect, or whatever you want. But you know that some people have more good things happen in their lives, and more happy surprises. What you may not know is that there are things you can do to be more like them and so be luckier yourself. Here are a few tips to get you started.
Don't Take Advice From Your Fears
Letting fear make decisions is a bad habit that is sure to get in the way of having more luck in your life. Acting from fear also sabotages your self-growth. Did you know that Johnny Carson had stage-fright every night before he went on the air? He stepped out there anyhow, and enjoyed doing the Tonight Show for decades. Fear is just a feeling. Move forward despite it.
I've tagged for an award by
Ayu in her blog full of anime. Thanks for the Award, Ayu. I'm sorry because I can't response it right away because the end of year company schedule really drive me crazzy and I also decrease the question because it too much time consuming.
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She said that i have to give you my 7 trivias about myself..
- My real name is Ammie, I'm Indonesian lives in Jakarta. For some people that doesn't know where Indonesia is, just remember that Bali - a famous holliday island - is in Indonesia.
- Actually I graduated as an electrical engineer, but i found my self much more interested in the internet industry. So, here i am writing some blog for you :)
Learn to love and accept yourself and "get" that you have the power to manifest any kind of life you want. This article shows you how.
One of the best and easiest ways to express your independence is by learning to love and accept yourself more and to "get" that you have the power to manifest any kind of life you want. That is such a powerful concept.
Get started by trying out some uplifting affirmations. These will help you shift your thinking from where you are now to a much stronger and more powerful and joyful perspective. I've given you some below to get started with. They cover self-love as well as financial independence.
We have been hearing for decades about the mind-body connection. Back in the '70s, it was something weird people thought about while the rest of the planet was following the well established rules of society. The adults around me were mocking the younger generation who talked about "finding" themselves.
Now, science has proven the connection. Our society has evolved to the point where study after study shows the correlation between our thoughts and our physical health. Scientists have proven that on a neurological and molecular level, we can dictate our physical state of being.
Step 1 is certainly the most important of all steps. Here is where you lay out your level of commitment. Make the choice to increase the compassion you extend to those in your orbit.
What makes a good leader? What personal qualities are needed for leadership? What characterizes good leadership? Here are important qualities a good leader must have.
How often have you heard the comment, "He or she is a born leader?" There are certain characteristics found in some people that seem to naturally put them in a position where they’re looked up to as a leader.
Whether in fact a person is born a leader or develops skills and abilities to become a leader is open for debate. There are some clear characteristics that are found in good leaders. These qualities can be developed or may be naturally part of their personality. Let us explore them further.
Living with stress might seem hopeless, but there are things that you can do to manage your stress and live a better life.
Managing stress is a topic everyone has to consider on a day to day basis. Some people have to manage the stress in their hectic life every day, while others struggle to handle their stress upon the onset of a big change or something tragic.
There are several ways to deal with stress that will have you feeling healthier and sleeping at night again.
Some people have super busy lives. They might have a job with long hours and a commute to top it off. The same person might also live in not ideal living situations and have co-workers they do not like.
Self-esteem can be boosted to create a more confident happy person. There are ways to change your thinking so that you will like yourself again.
Building self-esteem can be a challenge that may seem like an uphill climb. But with the right tools strengthening self-esteem is possible. Self-esteem issues can arise from many sources, not very nice parents, horrific experience, bullying at school, and rejection from peers or a poor view of how you view yourself. Creating self-esteem that is strong is all about changing the way you think and view yourself.
Self-esteem can be hurt and broken when parents do not give their children love. Instead they give their children lots of negative feedback. Many adults with low self-esteem can trace it back to childhood when their parents often treated them unkind.
In The Secret Life of Bees, by Sue Monk, a teenager of 14, lies in her bed at night, as bees come through her walls. Bees swarm all around her as she lays motionless so as to avoid being stung. Yet when she calls someone else to witness the bees – nothing is there.
Have you ever laid in bed, and been surrounded by a swarm of thoughts and worries? Money, relationships, tasks, words, what I should have said, what I wish I hadn’t said, what I totally neglected to do or say…. all swarming around – keeping you from sleep.
Perhaps you pull the covers over your head and try to escape by hiding, by sleeping, by sinking into the unconscious to escape the attack. Like the bees – are these thoughts really there?
In reality – nothing was in your room. Worries ONLY exist within you. Most people surround themselves by worries – regretting the past and fearful of the future. There is good news. You can change –
if you can imagine problems, you can imagine solutions.
Today more and more people are experiencing burnout, insomnia, and stress. Why is that? Many people have a very busy life. We all would like more time in the day an extra hour would be fantastic. Maybe have more time to relax and enjoy life with friends and family.
However in our society today, it is fast pace. Life is more demanding. It seems impossible to slow down. The road that we are driving on is continuous and there is no stop signs on it. It is a fast race. How do you gain more time to slow down? Here a 3 steps to help you on the journey to conquer the time you have on earth.
1. Start a flexible schedule.
Allow a little flexibility into your schedule. The more strict you are the less likelyyou will slow down and have a balance in your life. Things do happen. Leave room for the unexpected surprises.
Don't beat yourself up when situations do occur. Just take care of it. And move on with your schedule. Situations work outand do
occur for a reason. Even when it does not make any sense to you.
As a new year begins or a major birthday approaches, people start thinking about their lives. They sometimes are disappointed by where they are and want to be somewhere else. The things they want are not easy to get - if they were, they would already have them. So how does one set about changing one's life?
1. Realize it is up to you. Period.
No one is going to do the work for you. You may be able to get some help along the way, but this is completely up to you.
2. Pick three things only. No more.
I know, I know - there's the bucket list. Here's my thought on that - why overwhelm yourself? When you accomplish one goal you can add another. But if you list 100 things it's easy to lose focus and get distracted - doing a little here and a little there. An important part of this is prioritizing your desires. What are the three things you want most now?
Do you make new year resolutions every year only to find that they have fallen by the wayside before the end of January? Well, you're not alone.
Most resolutions don't last past the end of January. But if you understand why this is the case, then you are much better positioned to make successful new year resolutions.
One of the main reasons new year resolutions are broken is that we make too many of them at once. It's easy to reflect on all the changes we want to make to our lives – lose weight, get fit, stop smoking, get on top of your finances – but trying to tackle all these at once is just too much.
"If you’ve heard this story before, don’t stop me, because I’d like to hear it again."
Groucho Marx (1890-1977) Comedian and actor
Facts tell, while stories sell.
Have your salespeople tell stories. I have found that most successful salespeople sell by telling stories and not by making presentations. And, it does not seem like they are selling.
Top salespeople can build trust and credibility while overcoming skepticism by talking about how another customer solved a problem by using a product or service. A good story can address an objection or concern before the customer ever brings it up. Done right, the story well-told makes the storyteller appear sincere and trustworthy.
To be a leader, you must have confidence in your own abilities. The confidence must be both in your own ability to lead as well as in your ability to complete successfully whatever the task is that requires leadership.
Some people are born with the innate ability to lead and to lead well. Others may have to work harder to find it, but that ability does lie within each individual.
It just may take work for some people to find it and bring it out. Born leaders by nature have more self-confidence and higher self-esteem. To bring out leadership qualities in yourself, first you must build confidence in your own abilities.
Knowing yourself is a very important task which one has to undertake, it can often be the most challenging as well ...
When a person knows who they are, and clearly understands what they want, then they have a much better chance of discovering how to reach their own success, happiness and personal fulfilment!
Knowing one’s true inner self can be of great help to anyone working to reach their goals more effectively. It helps guide you along the path toward success.
This not only fills us with much happiness, bliss and calmness but also improves our mindset, as well as our relationships and connections with others.
It’s true what they say, practice really does make perfect. Here's why...
When we initially learn, we input the fresh information into our brain via the conscious mind. We must be consciously aware of the new information in order to understand it and try and make sense of it.
But to get really good at something, you need to bypass conscious thought and be able to perform well an action, without really thinking about it.
Introducing the subconscious mind! Consider driving on approach to a roundabout at speed, without the subconscious mind it would be a very difficult task.
Do you wish you were more creative but don't know where to start? Many of us wish we were more creative in our lives. How can we become more creative if we think we have lost the spark?
For one person, being more creative may mean they wish they could become a painter, musician, writer, dancer or some other sort of performing artist.
However, this is not a practical life style for everyone. Not everyone is going to find it realistic to embrace a life that is totally creative and artistic to the core.
Have you ever wondered why some people seem driven to make a lot of money while others honestly seem to be satisfied with just "getting by?"
Have you known people who do so much for others they become enablers and you think that’s not a good thing? Or do you know people who seem so immersed in their own needs they don’t do enough to help others?
If another person’s beliefs and attitudes are diametrically opposed to yours, you’ll have problems relating to that person and may have serious conflict because of your differences. Basically, the greater the gap between your values and someone else’s, the more difficulty you’ll have with that person.
What is the greatest love of all? Is it the relationship you are currently in with your mate? Or is it with yourself? One of our greatest mistakes in life is seeking for love and validation outside of ourselves before making loving ourselves a priority.
To love yourself is to be loved by others. It is said that the people in our lives will treat us based on the relationship we have with ourselves. How does your current relationships with those around you look like at this very moment? Is it rocky and unstable? Or is it calm and peaceful with mutual respect?
Those around us mirror what they see. If we do not respect ourselves and treat ourselves with respect, then those around us will treat us the exact same way, even without being conscious of it. So if you are wondering why others around you are treating you with such disrespect, are you disrespecting yourself?
Creativity is inventing, experimenting,
growing, taking risks, breaking rules,
making mistakes, and having fun.
~ Mary Lou Cook ~
An excellent quality you'll want to develop in yourself, if you want to experience more fulfillment in life, is the willingness or courage to experiment.
It is one of the key qualities of highly creative people.
In fact, without this quality, many inventions, creative works, and more would have never materialized. They would have just stayed ideas in people's minds.
Many of our problems would be resolved if we just formed the right habits and stuck to them. However, we do not bring all of who we are to help us create new habits and we end up abandoning the very habits that we know would make us happier.
As you go about the project of reinventing your life, one key factor is to develop new habits and shed the old ones that no longer serve you.
It is difficult to let go of an old habit unless you replace it with a new habit. Get your emotions involved in creating a new habit and you will have a much stronger chance of making that habit fully ingrained in your life.
Many smokers desire to quit, yet they are not only physically addicted, but mentally and emotionally as well. Many of them also beat themselves up as lazy or unmotivated. Here are tips to help anyone quit smoking.
The addiction to nicotine from cigarette smoking has been clearly documented and proven. It has clearly been stated and known that one of the biggest steps that can be taken to improve health and energy levels is to quit smoking.
Several things can be done in order to begin the process to help in stopping smoking. Many of these are simple changes implemented to the daily routine in order to quit this deadly habit. Smoking has been acknowledged by the medical community as an addiction that is so difficult to quit, it is comparable to kicking a heroin habit.
I've learned a secret about what's going on 99% of the time when someone is not giving you the respect, admiration, or love you want.
It's a secret that probably not in 1 in 1,000 people will ever figure out on their own. Think about the last time you felt unappreciated at home or work.
Didn't at least part of your distress stem from the fact that you had no idea why this person wasn't responding to you? I think the REASON why we don't figure out the secret to making ourselves irresistible is that it's the opposite of what we've been taught about relationships.
Let me explain ...
Most of us are taught that when a relationship is struggling, we should be extra nice, thoughtful, and giving. These are wonderful qualities, and we should all strive to have them.
When one calls to mind an inspirational individual, a few prevailing characteristics probably include that they are clear, concise and to the point, and, they are honest. You know where you stand with them.
Now contemplate those cryptic individuals in your life who don't seem to have a clue what they want or perhaps don't express what they really desire from you. And then there are those that have had to deliver a disquieting message but they sweetened the pill so much that you didn't have a clue what they were talking about. Bet they aren't on your "people who inspire me" list.
What we say and do, and how we say and do it, both directly shape how others experience us. Many times the assumptions people form about us are constructed because of the way we communicate. And this then directly impacts how they communicate in return.
Because of insecurity, thousands of individuals often wallow in depression. In this state of insecurity, you might find it difficult to concentrate or focus on or allow yourself to enjoy feelings of achievement as emotions of self-judgment then emerge.
Negative sentiments such as "why push ahead if I never get anywhere, anyway?" shows low self esteem and lack of self confidence. Talking to yourself in a hard way brings forth unhealthy and defeating attitude.
When you begin to ignore the positive or optimistic feelings linked with achievement, it is so easy to sway back into negative self-talk and damage your success.
When you punish or chastise yourself by focusing on past failures rather than past accomplishments, it keeps you in the gloom of nothingness and uncertainty where there is no opportunity for aiming high.
Each one of us has what it takes to live our life to its full potential. Today is your starting point. You choose the direction you want to go. Once you have determined the direction you want to take then set some goals to get you there.
Is it really that simple? Actually, it is.
Once you set your goals, the next step is to follow thru on those goals.
Goals are nice but they mean nothing if you don't follow thru.
Setting Goals is an important component to motivation and success.
While it is possible to be successful when someone else is providing the motivation for you, frankly motivation is best when it comes from within.
So be honest with yourself. Are you genuinely interested in being successful in your business? If so, set realistic goals for yourself. And remember, setting the goals is only the beginning. You must take steps to reach those goals.
Try it this week. Set a couple small goals that you would like to achieve this week. Take the necessary steps to achieve those goals. You may be surprised at the results.
Then you will see what goals can do for you. Before you know it, setting goals will be a regularly part of your weekly routine.
A long time ago a shopkeeper was opening a package of merchandise from England. He always admired the efficient way the British pack things as it was done with meticulous care.
When he opened it, there was a card on top. It said, "Expect a Miracle". He almost threw it in the trash and thought, "What does that mean? How did that get there?" but stuffed it into his shirt pocket.
That night he was emptying his pockets and showed it to his wife, "Look at this, 'Expect a Miracle'. What is that supposed to mean?"
"Maybe that is what we need", she said. "Our problems seem so overwhelming. Wonder what would happen if started expecting great things instead of always expecting the worst? Could miracles take place?"
What is it you want out of life? Once you decide what it is you want to do and where you want to be, you then must realize what you have to do to change your thinking to achieve these desires. When we were babies, we knew exactly what we wanted. We cried loudly with no inhabitions holding back until we got what we wanted.
As we got older, we were clear about what we wanted and headed straight toward it with no fear. Along the way, we would hear someone say, don’t do this or that and as we got older the negative words would be more intense. As we go thru our lives, we somehow get stuck trying to figure out what other people want us to do. As a result we now do a lot of things we don’t want to do but what pleases others.
So how do we reclaim ourselves and our true desires? How do we get back what we really want with no fear, shame or inhabitions? How do we reconnect with our real passion. We start on the smallest level by honoring our preferences in every situation, no matter how large or small. Don’t think of them as petty, they might be inconsequential to someone else, but they are not to you.
Motivating yourself to excel at your job or to be an example to your employees, should not be something you do only when the spirit moves you. It’s an ongoing process that should include every facet of your business life. This means your mental attitude, physical well-being and appearance, work atmosphere, your interaction with others (clients and employees alike), and your off-the-job environment.
Motivational experts get paid big bucks to tell professionals, striving for success, that they must constantly examine these factors. How do you do that? Follow the 5 tips that follow, and watch the changes.
1. Maintain a Positive Attitude
Let’s realize that life is only 10% of what happens to us and 90% how we react to it. We’re responsible for our own actions and attitudes, and changing them when appropriate. When you’re around people/things that are uplifting and positive, you feel that way.
Do you always complete the task at hand before moving on to the next one? Further more what’s the criteria you use to choose your next task? Lot’s of people start something then part way through either get bored or convince themselves it’s the right time to begin something else.
Why this is a problem!
It’s a problem because if you do it often enough you will have started several tasks and finished none which will eventually lead to a feeling of overwhelm as deadlines for the unfinished tasks loom.
It’s also a problem because what you are choosing to do may not be the most important thing requiring your attention. Therefore it does not represent the best use of your time. Things that grab your attention tend to be urgent but not necessarily important.
Your mind has two parts: the Conscious Mind and the Subconscious Mind. Together these two parts control all of your actions and ultimately the results you have in your life. As we explore each area of your mind, understand that while these ideas may seem simple and elementary, they have a wide reaching and profound affect on your life. They control every aspect of what makes you who you are and will continue to control everything in your life until the day you die.
The Conscious Mind
The Conscious Mind is where you do all your day to day thinking. This is where you make decisions and where you primarily operate from in normal life. When you hold a conversation or watch a t.v. program you are using your conscious mind. Both the conscious mind and the subconscious mind think in pictures. If you think about your family members a picture of them will flash on the movie screen of your conscious mind.
In modern times most people at the age of 1 to 25 years, are healthy and very active from 26 to 40 years they become tired, from 41 years up to the age of 80 they become sick, and might have age related eseases such as Blood Pressure, diabetes, gout, cancer, poor eye sight, back ache and they die at this age of 80 years.
Can this situation be changed? The answer is yes in fact any person can live up to 100 years and above with better health, the secret behind the healthy lifestyle is:
Nutrition
Your health is determined by the type of food you eat.The secret to healthier life is to eat a lot of fresh and natural food, these include, fruits and vegetables, the fruits and vegetables takes care of your imunity, look of your skin, help the function of your bowels and enable you to avoid conticipation.
Single again? As we travel through life, we often end up single. There are many reasons why. It could be the result of meeting the wrong person, death, cheating, lies, divorce, location, goals, and more. Losing a relationship impacts us in many ways. It can be very painful, or it can be very refreshing, or anywhere in-between. No matter what the cause or the degree of pain, there is one truth we all share: We don’t want to end up alone. We want to find companionship.
In order to get into a new relationship, we have to be willing to meet and go out with people. It’s our own fear, however, that often gets in the way.
- We fear getting rejected.
- We fear having a bad time.
- We fear getting hurt.
- We fear having to reject someone else.
Do you ever speak negatively to yourself, maybe you put yourself down in front of others, or perhaps you have difficulty accepting praise (maybe you don't think you deserve it)? If you are guilty of doing this, why do you do it? These are all related to low self esteem and a lack of self confidence.
It simply does not pay to put yourself down when you are on a path of self development or self improvement. For every little success you have will be negated by the negative self talk or attitudes you have towards yourself. It's like one step forward, negative self talk, then two steps back.
Wherever you want to get to in life, whatever you want to do, it is imperative that you become your own best friend first. Why bother with self doubt and loathing? Look where they have got you? Put them behind you, they haven't served any useful purpose up until now and they won't serve a useful purpose in the future. All they do is keep you stuck in a self perpetuating loop of negativity and self doubt.
These are really simple tips but most of them works quite well for people. If we do at least half of them we would be less stressed person and that means you would be happier. Try to think about that and make your choice - fight with stress or stress about it!
- Share your worries with family or friends whenever possible.
- Try to develop a social network or circle of friends and make time to see the people that matter to you.
- Exercise regularly - even a brisk walk at lunchtime is better than nothing. Plan in your exercise time otherwise it won't happen.
- Give yourself treats and rewards for positive actions, attitudes and thoughts.
- Don't be too hard on yourself- try to keep things in proportion.
- Don't bottle things up or sit all night brooding - think realistically about problems and decide to take some appropriate action; if necessary, distract yourself in a pleasant way.
- Plan for the future and do not dwell on past mistakes or disappointments. Don't beat yourself up.
- Relax every day and make time for YOU.
- Learn to delegate both at work and at home.
- Take short rests during the day and have proper breaks for meals. Take that lunch hour (or half hour).
Do you like you? If you do not like yourself, who and what do you like and why do you like it. Here is a crazy question. If you could be any, one you wanted to be who would you be? These are just a few questions please feel free to think about these in your share time.
Share time this is one of the more over used words in the English language. The one thing on this green earth that we have the lease of is time. Okay lets' get back to the original question. Are you happy, I have found that more of us are not happy.
In fact, people are very unhappy. Most people are just wasting time doing the things that they believe the world and/or those around them want them to do. If that, is the way that you are living your life is it worth it.
Building confidence whether in an individual or team situation can greatly impact the outcome of a situation or even the success of a respective venture. If a member of your team is lacking in confidence then it is your responsibility to ensure that they are encouraged and lifted up to maximum performance and greater impact within communicative and people based circumstances.
Often all it takes is a little reminder of the skills and awards which we are all prone to over our lifetimes. Encouragement is a wonderful tool on boosting confidence of your self or someone else. A compliment not on their appearance but skills and worth can be worth more than you may know to someone lacking in confidence. Make note of points which you can comment on so that your team and friends always know that they are important and respected.
One of the top complaints or obstacles that entrepreneurs have is "I don't have enough time."
Think about that for a moment
Does that describe you? Do you have too much on your plate and not enough time?
Do you often find yourself dreaming, "If only I had more time?"
Well, you've probably heard the saying that we all have the same amount of time per day. It's true isn't it? We all have the same 24 hours a day and 365 days a year. How is it that some people seem to get so much done and others are struggling just to keep up?
Thinking that you can have MORE time is a major part of the problem.
There's nowhere to purchase MORE time. You have all the time that's available to you until your time is up - it's really about how you can more effectively choose where to invest your time.
Did you ever stop to think what an important part your thoughts, I mean real concentrated thoughts, play in your life?
The ability to concentrate all your attention is so important, no matter what task or job you have to get done… as nothing great or significant can be accomplished without proper effort and concentration.
And almost all of us have some sort of difficulty in the concentration of our attention.
Workers in business and industry, students in high school and college, and even professors in universities, complain of the same difficulty.
So you want to get pregnant, but you have been having trouble doing so. I have some great tips that will help you on your way to achieving your goal.
First, to know how long your menstrual cycles are, track them on the calendar for 2 or 3 months. Your menstrual cycle starts with the day your period starts and stops the day before your next period starts. If you are not sure the number of days in your menstrual cycle, you can use 28 days. This is the normal length of a menstrual cycle.
In order for you to get pregnant, you should have sex before you ovulate, at least two or three days before ovulation - those will be your most fertile days.
How will you know when you're going to ovulate? There are many methods available, ovulation predictor kits or tracking your basal body temperature. Research states that the best time for intercourse is the day you notice the most fertile cervical mucus.
There is no easy answer for how women handle stress. You can't have someone tell you to "do this", and you "do that", and then Poof, your stress magically disappears. It doesn't work that way, at least not for women. They are deep and complex individuals and the answer to resolving stressful issues is usually elusive and often just out of reach.
Stress can keep you off balance, subconsciously searching for that one "Aha" moment when you realize what you must do in order to resolve the situation and easy your discomfort.
Unless you've experienced it you just don't know how debilitating these feelings can be: feelings of constant turmoil and fear. You know, that sick, churning feeling in your gut that just won't go away: feelings of inadequacy, and of responsibilities so overwhelming you're sure you'll never be able to handle it all.
Can’t sleep? Can’t think straight? Too tired to function? Trying to focus on your workload but can’t? It’s time to gain control and cleaning your mind!
In this day and age, it’s all too easy to be overwhelmed by the pressures of day to day living. Have a good look around you. Recognise those strained and tense expressions. Everybody is juggling their workloads, many people are tired, irritable and stressed and struggling to cope but some people have learned how to manage these pressures more readily and the answer is to keep your mind as calm and as organised as possible.
As a writer, I often have many projects on the go at any one time, these projects range from how-to articles, writing courses and books, and include many different subjects, ideas and creative images which are collated in my mind at any one time. On top of that, I teach creative writing at college too. One day I realised that my brain felt scrambled, I had complete overload, worse, I had so many ideas flowing through the creative channels that I could not concentrate on any particular one!
How can we preserve our inspiration In this planet you have to be taught to stimulate manually There are many things in the life that can grounds you to lose your inspiration It is our job to be taught to identify anything that grounds us to lose our inspiration an extra time for us, to stay provoked we must be taught to draw on our own inside reasons.
One way to stay provoked is to be taught to send time with you. It is not necessary to for all time have citizens about to stimulate that kind of inspiration is only impermanent Most of our inspiration that comes from outside sources will never last. When we take to time to get to know us, we will mostly find a nice person. We are provoked be grounds we be taught to love who we are and the way we are.
What is true listening? People suggests that true listening is not advise, counsel or trying to solve problems. Listening is just hearing what your troubled teen has to say. Parents often respond to a teen with comments that are judgmental, advisory or are non-accepting in some way. These responses “close” or shut down the conversation and do not promote further dialogue.
Closed responses also "discount" the other person.
Open responses are a much more productive method of communicating with a defiant teenager. These responses are nonjudgmental, and have no suggestions or solutions. The response is one of simply accepting what is being said. These responses reflect both the content and the feelings the child is projecting to you as the parent.
Here is an example of closed parent response and an example of open parent response.
"What Makes Me A Beauty Expert?"
I didn't choose to be a Beauty Expert. It chose me. I still don't know why it chose me, lately I've felt its part of my purpose and I feel so very blessed for it and this powerful thing called destiny.
I have lived my whole life seeking perfection. I wanted to look good but at the same time, I never quite understood how to accept myself.
I went to Beauty College to be an Aesthetician after high school in hopes of learning the secrets to preserve my youth. I studied the Aesthetician course for skin care. My studies included basic skin care with the understanding of how ingredients in products affect the skin, skin waxing and make-up application.
I learned how to apply foundation, eyeliner, eyelashes, and contour the eyes with shadow and the cheeks with blush, using the appropriate cosmetic utensils. I lived make-up and all things skin. I guess I was a little obsessed back then.
If you are going to have success with dating you need to believe in what you are doing. This is something that many people don't take into consideration. Sure, they want to date and find love but they don't really know how to get there. Fortunately, if you devise a better dating blueprint you can get on the right track.
Those who believe they are on the right track don't have anything to worry about. They can continue to follow their blueprint until they get what they want. But on the other side, if you are not achieving dating success it is time to make a change.
Why don't you believe in what you are doing? This is the question that you have to answer first. Some people feel that they are not looking for their next date in the right place. Others are missing the boat because they are going out with the wrong type of people. No matter why you are lagging behind, you need to do your best in finding a better plan.
If you are one of the many people who suffer from excessive hair in embarrassing places, there are methods which can be used to remove this hair. There are a number of easy hair removal techniques available, leaving your body smooth and hair free.
Many salons around the UK offer easy hair removal services. As well as this there are many hair removal methods which can be carried out in the privacy of your own home.
Each person has their own preferred methods, lets discuss the options.
1. Shaving
Shaving is the most common method of hair removal. For men it is common to shave facial hair and other areas using a shaving device. For women, facial hair removal is carried out using alternative devices, although they do use shavers for other areas of the body. Shaving is a quick way of easy hair removal, with little pain. It can be carried out at home and there is little risk of reactions of the skin. Hair can be removed completely or neatly trimmed and there are a wide range of products available for both men and women.
Emergency contraception (EC) is not the substitute for regular birth control methods or abortion but, in fact, is the “emergency” option for women to avoid pregnancy after contraception failure, sexual assault or unprotected intercourse. Emergency contraception, specially Progestin-only birth control pills like Plan B, are advised to women seeking immediate action to avoid pregnancy. Such pills are advised to rape victims and sexually assaulted women as well.
Emergency contraception pills are also known as “morning-after”, “EC” or “Postcoital Contraception” in medical terms. However, “morning-after” doesn’t mean that emergency contraception pills to be taken in the morning. It should be taken as prescribed.
A bad mood is capable of striking anybody at one point or another. These seemingly inexplicable 'spells' that assault our positive demeanor can ruin an entire day. When you're moody nothing seems to go right.
The negative outlook this creates can set the stage for experiencing conflict or difficulties in areas that were otherwise problem free. As your thinking patterns tend to lack positive thoughts you can easily create a 'vortex' of negativity that will lead to nowhere good.
Perhaps the most dangerous part of carrying around the negative emotions that result from moods like this is your inability to think clearly. Negative mood swings put you in a position where you base your reactions and decisions on emotions and feelings. This is NOT a good thing.
